Kareena Kapoor Khan on owning success and charisma by simply staying true to herself

Imagine this: I’m sitting in Mumbai’s Mehboob Studio, eagerly awaiting our September cover girl’s arrival. I’m feeling a mix of excitement and nervousness, trying to maintain my composure. Suddenly, the buzz in the room shifts—Kareena Kapoor Khan is stepping onto the set. I stand up, adjust my shirt, and mentally prepare to introduce myself. Before I can say a word, she smiles and says, “Hi Rasna, how’s it going? It’s so exciting to be here today.” I’m taken aback. Noticing my stunned reaction, she adds, “We met in Jaipur, remember?” As if I could ever forget a meeting with her, but for her to remember me is a testament to why Kareena remains an unparalleled icon of our generation.

Born into the illustrious Kapoor family—the first family of Bollywood—Kareena is a fourth-generation actor who embodies both legacy and modernity. She exudes a unique blend of calmness, coolness, and an infectious energy. Despite having worked with my fair share of celebrities, Kareena stands out for her ability to make you feel both valued and inspired. As she seamlessly transitions through outfits and shots, her openness to experimentation ensures that every moment is nothing short of iconic.

Two weeks later, during the interview, I find myself staring at a black screen, only to be pleasantly surprised when Kareena appears on camera—hair tied back and dressed in a casual cotton kaftan, devoid of any make-up. She casually says, “What, do you expect me to talk to a black screen? Come on, Rasna, turn on the camera!” At that moment, I realise that Kareena is in a league of her own. In an industry where every move is scrutinised, she demonstrates that she lives passionately, loves her job, and understands that there’s more to her than just box-office numbers. As she puts it, “I think the reason for my longevity is that I’m just being myself. I’m as happy to be on the floor, wearing glamorous outfits and make-up, as I am in a kaftan worth ₹2,000. I believe in myself and feel super confident.”

ON BEING AN INDUSTRY VETERAN

Sharp, focused, and cool—this is how Kareena describes herself, and indeed, she embodies all three. But her version of “cool” isn’t about fitting in but about staying true to oneself and not letting external factors compromise one’s essence. I admit to her that I might have moments of fangirling, revealing that, as a 31-year-old who grew up watching her films and iconic characters, I am a product of her impact on our generation. Whether it’s Poo from Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham (2001), Chameli (2003), or Geet from Jab We Met (2007), there are countless times I’ve turned to a Kareena character or song for inspiration.

Kareena reflects on this, saying, “Yes, I do remember those roles. I’ve been in around 75 to 80 films over nearly 25 years. Even though Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham was more than 22 years ago and Jab We Met was released a while back, I find that the longevity of those characters seems to resonate even more today. It’s surprising how those characters have maintained their relevance and become part of pop culture. While films and the industry continue to evolve, some actors and characters remain memorable, though not always in the same way they once were.”

Kareena observes that everything has evolved considerably ever since she joined the industry 24 years ago. “However, we need to pay more attention to content and scripts. We should focus more on our scriptwriters, language, dialogue, and dialect—all these elements need greater emphasis. Of course, other aspects have evolved as well. We now have agents, managers, and a highly compartmentalised system. There’s this entire PR machinery that often seems to dictate who’s the latest global icon based on the success of their films. But, honestly, these are just fleeting names and trends that change weekly.”

As someone who has witnessed how the process of acting, the nature of characters, and the scripts have transformed, Kareena feels that what truly endures is the essence of the craft. “The director, and the performances that leave a lasting impact—these are what really matter. Lately, I’ve been longing for more focus on strong storytelling and scriptwriting. I hope with good films performing well at the box office, we’ll see a resurgence in content that truly resonates.”

Known for not mincing her words, the veteran actor’s advice to newcomers is also simple and straightforward. “Focus on your performance, stay centred on what’s happening in front of the camera,” she advises. “There’s a lot of noise behind the scenes, but what truly matters is your performance. Keep honing your craft and improving your acting skills. That’s what will help you stand out and succeed.” She reveals that she never chased any opportunity. “Instead, I let them come to me. If something didn’t work out, I was okay with it because I knew that by staying true to myself and my craft, everything would eventually fall into place.”

ACTING VS PRODUCING

Kareena’s eyes light up as she talks about her passion for acting. “My goal has always been to be recognised as a serious actor, not just a star,” she reveals. “While being a star is great, I’ve always been driven by the desire to take on challenging roles. Coming from a family with a rich acting legacy—my grandfather (Raj Kapoor), Shashi Kapoor, Shammi Kapoor, Rishi Kapoor, and my sister Karisma—I wanted to prove that I could combine being a star with being a serious actor. Whether it was the commercial success of Jab We Met or the intense drama of Udta Punjab, (2018) I’ve always sought roles that push my boundaries and showcase my versatility. This blend of commercial appeal and depth is something I strive for, and I continue to pursue it with projects like Singham and others.” Of all the roles that she has played, Kareena mentions how playing Mira in Yuva (2004) was special. “It allowed me to portray a very real, relatable character. People often see me as glamorous, so stepping out of that mould and delivering a performance grounded in reality help create a deeper connection.”

While discussing her work, Kareena emphasises her collaborative nature. “I’ve always been part of ensemble casts—from Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham to Udta Punjab. For me, it’s never been just about my role but about the film as a whole. Even in Udta Punjab, where Alia Bhatt and Shahid Kapoor had crucial parts, I saw my role as essential to the story. As I’ve progressed in the industry, I’ve learned that supporting the entire project is what really counts. Whether it’s Veere Di Wedding (2018) or some other film, I focus on contributing to the overall success. I believe in backing the project with actions, not just words.” As our the conversation turns to Kareena’s new venture—she is co-producing The Buckingham Murders directed by Hansal Mehta—she admits that the decision to produce was quite spontaneous. “I’ve always had a passion for crime thrillers and murder mysteries—anything from Agatha Christie’s Poirot to various classic whodunnits. When this opportunity came up, I felt it was a chance to dive into something I love. Producing this film with Ektaa Kapoor seemed like the perfect fit. It’s a unique project—70 per cent in English and 30 per cent in Hindi, and it has a slightly noir, different vibe. This film wasn’t made with commercial success in mind; it’s driven by passion.” However, the actor says she is not fully sure if she will continue producing. “If I were to do so, it would probably be another crime series, as that’s where my true interests lie. I’m more inclined toward deep, engaging content rather than typical commercial fare,” she adds.

SOCIAL MEDIA AND PUBLIC SCRUTINY

Kareena’s confidence shines through as we discuss if she ever experiences moments of insecurity. “I’m very content with my life and career. I’ve achieved everything I set out to, and I’m happy that people around the world appreciate my work. I never had a burning ambition to break into Hollywood or act in English-language films; my ambitions are about meaningful work and staying true to myself. I’m ambitious, but I’m also grounded in what I have and where I am.”

As I bring up a recent social media post that celebrated her no make-up look from 20 years ago and ask how she manages to maintain such an effortless presence amid today’s intense media focus, Kareena reflects on the simplicity of earlier days. “Back then, there were no stylists or elaborate make-up routines. We just showed up in our jeans and T-shirts, and that authenticity was part of our charm. Today’s media landscape is different, with a lot of pressure to look perfect. However, staying true to oneself is what resonates. It’s rare to be genuinely yourself in a world that often demands perfection.”

Kareena says she wants people to know her through my work rather than just her appearance or brand affiliations. “I’ve never chased that side of life. It's just the way I am, and it’s changed a lot in the last decade. I’m much happier and more comfortable in this space now. Despite the instant gratification of social media, I find joy in being active on Instagram, sharing parts of my life myself.”

ON BEING A STYLE ICON

No conversation with Kareena can be without discussing fashion. Her approach to fashion seems to embody an effortless elegance, where her style is a natural extension of her personality rather than a calculated display. Kareena’s fashion choices often surprise and delight, not because they are deliberately curated but because they reflect her genuine taste.

I point out how her style seems to effortlessly blend high fashion with a personal touch, with sightings of Issey Miyake and The Row pieces becoming quite notable. I’m curious if this reflects an inner shopping spree or if there’s a deeper, more personal connection to her wardrobe. “Oh, absolutely! I love shopping, and it’s a big part of who I am,” grins Kareena. “But it’s not about following trends or having a stylist curate my looks. I just really enjoy discovering pieces that resonate with me personally.”

She notes that her fashion choices often feature statement pieces like those iconic The Row bags, and how her style seems more about personal expression than trend-following. Kareena adds with a chuckle, “I’m definitely a bit of a quiet fashionista. I’m not one to flaunt my shopping habits, but if you ask my sister or anyone close to me, they’ll tell you that I’m a serious shopper. My wardrobe probably contains more from Net-aPorter than I could ever get through—some pieces are still in their boxes. I buy things that I know I’ll actually wear and enjoy.” She continues, “For instance, I’m as happy in a simple American Vintage tee as I am with a statement piece that I know will stay with me for years. It’s not about chasing the latest trends; it’s about curating a wardrobe that reflects my personal style.”

I mention how Kareena’s fashion choices often precede trends, like her early adoption of Loro Piana pieces, which have since become popular. She acknowledges this, saying, “I’ve been wearing Loro Piana for years, mainly because it’s practical for winter holidays in places like Gstaad. It’s not about showcasing a brand but wearing what I find comfortable and functional.”

This authentic approach to fashion is mirrored in her public persona as well. Kareena’s Instagram posts, from candid moments to relaxed holiday snapshots, offer a glimpse into her real life without the gloss of over-curation. “I enjoy sharing bits of my life, but I’m also fiercely private about certain aspects, especially when it comes to my family. I like to give a glimpse but also retain some privacy.” She adds with a laugh, “Saif often teases me about the amount of effort that goes into these appearances. He misses the simpler times when we could just throw on jeans and a tee, and go out without the fanfare.”

I ask Kareena about balancing her trend-setting fashion choices with everyday life and whether she’s ever taken a fashion risk she regretted or would like to try. She responds, “No, I don’t think so. I’ve always leaned towards classic styles that I’m comfortable in. Risks are something I don’t really consider in fashion. I’m open to experimenting for shoots and such, but personally, I don’t see myself as particularly risky.” \

Keeping our issue theme in mind, I ask if she has a style icon in real life. “My mother-in-law, my husband, and my sister are all style icons in their own right. It’s always about matching up to them,” she admits.

ON AGEISM

Over the years, Kareena has evolved from a carefree young woman into someone who embraces her body and self-care with remarkable authenticity. “In my teens, I was just a Punjabi Kapoor, enjoying food and life without much concern. Transitioning to a size zero for a role was never planned—it was just something I did. I never imagined it would spark such a craze. Today, I focus on feeling good and being comfortable with who I am,” she shares.

And comfortable she is indeed—be it in her skin or her age. “From the beginning, I was confident that my talent and dedication would ensure I continued to get work. I took care of myself, stayed fit, and focused on being the best version of myself.”

Kareena’s approach to self-care is deeply personal. “Self-care means taking time for myself, whether it’s spending quality moments with friends, cooking with Saif, or simply enjoying a workout,” she shares. “It’s about feeling great, whether that’s through fitness routines or just being with my family. Nourishing my soul with a good meal, a heartfelt chat, or a bottle of wine is essential for me.”

Kareena’s evolution reflects a balance of self-love and authenticity, embracing her true self while staying fit and fulfilled. She asserts that she is against altering her appearance. “Age is a part of beauty. It’s not about fighting lines or trying to look younger; it’s about embracing and loving the age you’re at. I’m 44 and have never felt better. I don’t feel the need for Botox or any cosmetic enhancements. My husband finds me sexy, my friends say I look amazing, and my films are thriving. I play roles that reflect my age and am proud of it. I want people to see me for who I am and appreciate that.”

ON FEMALE FRIENDSHIPS

As she reflects on her life and reveals how female friendships have played a crucial role. “Female friendships are everything to me,” Kareena says with a heartfelt smile. “There’s something so unique about the support and understanding I get from my best friends or my sister. It hits differently than even the support from Saif. Women just connect on a level that’s hard to explain but incredibly impactful. My life has always been surrounded by strong women—my mother, my sister. We’ve always championed the ‘women supporting women’ mantra. Those moments where I can sit down with friends, chat, and share my life are so precious. I look forward to them because they truly uplift me.”

ON MARRIAGE AND MOTHERHOOD

As a mother of two young boys, Kareena’s life has shifted in delightful ways. “With my boys, football and cricket have taken centre stage,” she laughs. “I now know more about footballers like Erling Haaland and Harry Kane than I do about actors! Being a ‘boy mom’ has definitely influenced my interests. I’ve embraced their passions, and it’s been wonderful to be a part of their world.”

Kareena speaks warmly about her relationship with her husband, and says she is grateful for the happiness they bring to each other. “Saif (Ali Khan) is always a bundle of fun, even though he might comes across as serious,” she says with a smile. “We both love our work, but we also enjoy having fun together. We share a passion for travel and adventure. I think I’ve brought a sense of spontaneity and joy into his life. Our time together is filled with our mutual love for adventure.”

Kareena’s candidness and authenticity shine through her responses, revealing a woman who navigates public life with grace, embracing fashion and personal expression on her own terms while staying true to herself. Reflecting on her legacy, Kareena is thoughtful. “Professionally, I hope to be remembered for my work. I plan to keep acting well into my eighties—that’s the dream,” she says with determination. “Acting is my passion. But beyond my professional achievements, I hope people remember me as someone who was genuine and true to herself. I want my legacy to reflect that I lived life on my own terms. Whether it was enjoying a quiet evening with friends, listening to music, or savouring good food and wine, it was always about embracing life fully, not chasing after the superficial. That’s what I want people to remember.”

Kareena is excited about the future. “I’m really looking forward to starting on two fantastic new films next year,” she shares enthusiastically. “I can’t wait to work with some new directors and explore new creative paths. And of course, holidays are important to us. We make sure to take a break every three months.” As a final note, I’ll leave you with Diljit Dosanjh’s famous words: “Hogi Rihanna, hogi Beyonce, sadi ta ae he hai, Kareena. (There might be Beyoncé and Rihanna, but we have Kareena).”

Editor and Interview: Rasna Bhasin (@rasnabhasin)

Digital Editor: Sonal Ved (@sonalved)

Creative Director & Stylist: Anaita Shroff Adajania (@anaitashroffadajania)

Photographer: Akula Madhu (@madetart)

Cover Design: Mandeep Khokhar (@mandy_khokhar19)

Editorial Coordinator: Shalini Kanojia (@shalinikanojia)

Hair Artist: Mitesh Rajani (@miteshrajani)

Make-up Artist: Mickey Contractor (@mickeycontractor)

Set Design: Janhavi Patwardhan (@theartnut_j)

Styling Assistants: Neona Bahri (@neonasanjaybahri), Aditi Jaiswal (@jaiswal.aditi__), Santya Ahuja (@santyaahuja)

Photographer Assistants: Gaurav Yadav (@gaurav_yadav8969), Anil Jaiswal (@aniljaiswal_), Rahul Nanda (@rahul_nanda_retouching), Jaymin Prahlad (@jayminprahlad), Abhijit Dharankar (@abhiz.retouchingart)

Make-up Assistant: Shamu Kandara (@shamu_kandara)

Line Producer: Salim Memon (@lineproducer)

Kareena is wearing a saree, stylist own; earrings, Simran Chhabra (@simranchhabrajewels); rings, Ishhaara (@ishhaara); pumps, Kate Diwali 85 by Christian Louboutin (@louboutinworld); nails, Anisha Mulchandani (studionails_mumbai).